Saturday, September 20, 2008

Bound To Happen Sooner Or Later

I was planning a totally different post,
I was going to write about lots of random things,
But such is life,
Things are thrown your way when you least expect them,
To say it wasn't expected is a lie,
That said,
To say I was prepared is an even bigger lie.

With every situation or problem there is a different way to deal,
To react....

You can hide behind your emotions and shy away from all forms of common sense,

You can turn to God and build yourself a spiritual shell made of good faith and patience,

You can deal with it proactively by thinking of possible solutions to cut your losses,

You can seek help from those you love and trust.

Theres no right or wrong here, every situation requires a different approach.

I've been in this situation before, in the past I took a more submissive role,
This time I plan to take things into my own hands,
Its my life, I make the decisions, I have a right to plan my life,
I think the time of letting things happen on good will (or 3el baraka) is over.

If I don't do it, nobody will do it for me.
Its not everyday that you have the luxury to choose,
And my choice is 'Now'

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To anyone who thinks this is a sad post.
I'm anything but sad.
I'm just organising my thoughts to form a good plan of action.

I hope you all do the same.
Anything you've always wanted, secretly wished for?
Don't wait for it to happen for you,
Don't wait until its too late.
Make a move...
Now...
O 3ela golat ilKwaityen:
"Ilyom gabil bachir"
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Special note to special friend ;*

I was invited to a ghabga and I finally got to wear the bow cuff and I was paid so many compliments becuz of it. So I planned to post it on a long picture post about what I've been up to this Ramadan so I get to lure you back to the blog world. And low and behold I get a message from you saying that you should start blogging again.

If thats not a sign I don't know what is ;)

17 comments:

Um Mit3ib said...

3ajebny swarech
aby nafsa:P

Delicately Realistic said...

It was a gift ;>

O b9eer na7eesa o mani m3almitich min wain ;P

do0da said...

GL ! o i hope it works out well

KTDP said...

Decisiveness beats over thinking any day ....

My taste in jewelry (or lack there of) makes it very difficult for me to comment on the bracelet thingy ....


Two weeks left I believe? enjoy them .... no vacations for the first 6 months ;)

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

if not now, then when?
if not us, then who?

i like your approach. why the hell are we waiting and stalling anyway??

am i making sense??

probably not, bs my5alef lol ;)

ps: i like the bracelet :)

PaLoMiNo said...

sa7 elsanich ;*
everything u said is so true...

min wayn il sowar ;p

Delicately Realistic said...

Dooda: Thanks ! ;>

KTDP: Your mean ;/ 16 days as of today...i dont want to i dont want to i dont want to !!!

Dandoon: Yes exactly! Action action action!

Palomino: Sa7 ibdinich ;> it was a gift hehe

Big Pearls said...

nice bracelet..bil 3afya:)

Yazeed said...

i wish more ppl would learn from you :)

hope all is well all the time

A Journal Entry said...

i like ur approach.. i am lil asaf the kind of person who waits for things to happen and doesn't take actions.. i'll have to learn from u! =)

and i like the bracelete 3laich bil 3afya ;)

FourMe said...

el cuff mo 6abee3y 3alaich bil 3afyaa.. I agree a plan is always good.. w minkom nastafeed :)

Aurous said...

I agree!
We can't wait for our luck to change, or for our dreams to come true on their own!
Good things don't just come to you; they might pass by you but you'll have to pull them your way :)

Nice bracelet :)

diigmaa said...

ok ok rushing straight to the bow cuff : 3alaich ib alf 3afyaaaaaaaa :***


back to the top of your post.. hmm making me think many things.. many many many...

and yes.. it is a sign hehehhe you know I live my life on signs :P

Cat said...

I learned sumthing!

Sham3at Al Jillas said...

Love the cuff ;)...

eshda3wa said...

i totally believe in taking matters into ur own hands and make NOW count
so good for you

Delicately Realistic said...

BP: Thanks ;> Allah y3afech!

Yazeed: Thank u ;) hope all is well for u as well! Too many well's in that sentence eh?

JE: No ur not ;> ur learning to cook...kilyom ur trying a new dish, u ought give urself more credit ;)

FourMe: Allaaah y3afech ;> yalla plan plan plan away !

Aurous: Glad u agree ;) and thanks.

Digmitiiiiii ;*
Yalla...show me how u live ur life on signs and write a post already!!

Cat: What?! :>

Sham3at IlJilas: Thank u :)

Eshda3wa: Thanks babe ;*